Boy Question: How do you know when a guy is coming in for a hug or a kiss?
Chances are, he's coming in for a kiss. I would assume that every guy wants to kiss you if he's going in for anything. He would totally avoidthe area if he didn't want anything, or make it completely obvious. Likely, his head is straight on you vs facing to the side.
Therefore, you should assume that you are in charge...and you need to non verbally tell him what you want. If you go in straight, you get to make out, if you go in with cheek, he'll get it. It's your decision.
I can't believe you're 28.